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Pregnancy: Weeks 28-34: When things don’t always go to plan

Time seems to be flying through this pregnancy now, I can’t believe that on Monday I’ll be 34 weeks – only 3 weeks away from the baby being fully cooked or ‘term’! Eek, things are really beginning to heat up now and it’s exciting and terrifying all in one. I can’t believe that in around 6 weeks, she will be here! So, as we are getting to the final stages, I want to record as many moments as possible as we get the final bits of preparation done. I can only describe this last few weeks as a bit of a rollercoaster, things have been good, things have been unexpected and we have mainly been growing, growing, growing! It seems at a lightning speed now, I keep wondering how much bigger I’m going to get before I pop!

So, we will start off with the couple of unexpected moments, so we can end on the happier times!

AM I GIVING BIRTH AT A KYLIE MINOGUE CONCERT?

Pregnancy: Weeks 28-34: When things don't go to plan

Just before Christmas when I was around 30 weeks, we went to see Kylie Minogue at the Royal Albert Hall (you may have seen this little vlog I made of the day). I’d been getting a LOT of Braxton Hicks for the last few weeks but at this point they seemed to be getting more and more frequent. However, I didn’t worry too much as they didn’t hurt and as soon as I sat down they would go away – I just popped it on my list to speak to the midwife about at my next appointment. Anyway, cue the Kylie concert – it was a GREAT show (the bit I saw) but it was also very hot, very loud and as the evening heated up everyone was on their feet dancing…..Well, apart from me. My tummy decided to start giving me contractions every 3 minutes or so, which was amazingly uncomfortable – I know this as I was getting one/two per song. Yep, I was timing my contractions on Kylie songs! I didn’t really know whether to start worrying, they weren’t painful as such but they were bad enough I couldn’t stand up, so I spent the most of the Kylie concert huffing, puffing, leaning over my seat, sitting down and riding through the contractions as everyone danced around me. It was surreal. Vee was hoping my waters would break so we could tell Kylie I gave birth at her concert, but it didn’t happen…. thankfully! As soon as we got back to the hotel, all of the symptoms went away, it appeared to be a false labour and later my midwife described it as an ‘irritable uterus‘, not actual labour. PHEW.

REDUCED MOVEMENTS

Roll on to the following week when we treated ourselves to a final holiday as a family of 3. We headed down to a quaint thatch cottage in the cutest village of Lulworth Cove in Dorset. It was perfect and just what we needed to chill out, however I think we all chilled out a little too much as by the Tuesday morning I’d realised I hadn’t felt the baby move all morning. I quickly downloaded the Kicks Count App and read their website for advice on what to do. The advice said to drink a cold drink and lay on my left side to count movements, but nothing would get her to even give a squiggle. We decided it was best to be on the safe side and get her checked at hospital, but being away from home we had no idea where to go so I googled the closest A&E and off we went to Dorchester hospital as quick as we possibly could.  All I can say was that the hospital was AMAZING, I was seen to straight away – rushed into the maternity ward and put into a bed, strapped to a monitor and within minutes of arriving we heard little Baby Peaches heartbeat loud and clear on the monitor. They gave me a little button to press every time she moved and I didn’t push it much at all, but after around 45 mins-1 hour they were happy with her heartbeat and let us go. Funny enough, following on with the Kylie theme, baby didn’t move for the first 30 minutes on the monitor but as we were sitting around Vee showed me a Youtube video from the Kylie concert and as soon as the music was playing, baby started jiggling around! Safe to say she’s a big Kylie fan, just like her Mummy V. Anyway, all was well and we set off on our way. Turns out I think that was the calm before the storm as she headed into a massive growth spurt the following day, so she must have been conserving her energy…. and scaring us silly! I’d urge anyone questioning their babies movements to get checked though, the staff were amazing and it’s better to be safe than sorry. Check out Kicks Count for more information.

GROWING, GROWING, GROWING

Pregnancy: Weeks 28-34: When things don't go to plan

The same outfit at 20 & 30 weeks

After the events of Kylie and Dorset – Baby seemed to just be preparing for the biggest growth spurt she’s been through to date, we are just growing so quickly. Sometimes I feel I can notice it overnight, it’s that fast. Her kicks have changed from punches and jabs to tight struggles where her space is running out. She also likes to jam her bum underneath my rib (mainly when I’m eating) which is a bizarre feeling I’ll remind her of one day, ha! Now that I’m bigger my ‘irritable uterus‘ seems to have cleared up a bit, it seemed to be a bit of a funny patch before the growth spurt, but we are doing well now.

BUMPS FIRST CHRISTMAS

Pregnancy: Weeks 28-34: When things don't go to plan

Christmas was a low-key affair for us this year, with our house in disarray whilst the nursery is being completely gutted and decorated – there just wasn’t enough room within the chaos to put up any decorations. Plus, Vee had to work on Christmas Day, so it was probably one of the most un-festive years to date, but I like to think I’m just saving myself for next year. First year with baby, who will be 10 months by then will be just lovely I’m sure, I can’t wait! I did wear my bumps first christmas jumper to get us in the festive spirit and we bought each other a couple of little gifts to mark the day. The great thing about being pregnant at Christmas is eating ALL the Christmas food without feeling guilty at all! I’ve missed my mulled wine and brandy butter this year though. Roll on Christmas 2017, it’s going to be so much fun!

 

 

 

MOVING FORWARD

Pregnancy: Weeks 28-34: When things don't go to plan

This next phase can only be described as ‘BUSY BUSY!’ We have around 6 weeks to go and we are all systems go with getting everything ready. The nursery is nearly all painted, but we are waiting for the floorboards to be sanded back and shutters on the big bay window to be fitted. Then we have the joyous task of assembling the flatpack furniture!

I’ve been busy packing my hospital bags (thanks to this list by Rachel) and been busy washing all the clothes and handwashing things I’ve made for the baby and her first teddy (how cute does he look all wet?)

Next week we start our NCT and Hypnobirthing classes, I’ve also organised a meet-up for other same-sex expectant parents, so I’m looking forward to meeting some new Mummies-to-be next week. It’s also our Baby Shower, kindly arranged by our friend Andrea, so that will be fab to get everyone together!!

Lastly, I am also eagerly stalking my preggo blogger friend Maisie as she’s just 37 weeks and is ready to pop any second, eek, I’m SO EXCITED for her and Jack! ?

 

It’s been a whirlwind of emotions the last few weeks, but we always knew pregnancy would be like that. I’ll try and fit in another update before little one arrives – eek! 

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22 Comments

  1. 6 January, 2017 / 6:03 pm

    What a busy few weeks you guys have had! I’m so relieved everything was okay after your cheeky little monkey decided to go a bit quiet!
    Can’t believe we’re both nearing the finish line!!! So exciting! ? Eeeeeeep!! Thanks for the mention hehehe! We’re super excited for you guys too! Must arrange a meet up once the babies are here and it’s a
    Bit warmer! xxx

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:17 pm

      I know, it’s been mental! Aww a meet up with the bubs would be so lovely after we’ve followed each others journeys! xx

  2. 6 January, 2017 / 7:12 pm

    Oh gosh, irritable uterus does not sound fun at all!! That all sounds quite stressful and scary, so glad that she started wriggling around again 🙂 good luck for the last few weeks!! xxx
    Lucy @ La Lingua | Life, Travel, Italy

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:16 pm

      Yeah it was pretty stressful at the time, I’m so pleased it’s cleared up a little bit now, phew.

      xx

  3. Dee
    6 January, 2017 / 7:53 pm

    HAHA! I love that Baby is already a massive Kylie fan! I’m waiting to see snapchats of her and her mummies dancing around to ‘Spinning Around’! Glad that you got yourself checked out and fingers crossed that these last few weeks will be jiggly, easier and exciting!!

    Dee | xoxo

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:16 pm

      Haha, we will have to do some snaps, she’ll love it! 🙂 xx

  4. Rebecca Fletcher
    6 January, 2017 / 8:00 pm

    Aww I love the ‘bumps first christmas’ jumper. I love that the baby is a Kylie fan already! haha. Good luck with your last few weeks. xx

    http://www.beautylifebecca.blogspot.co.uk

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:16 pm

      Thanks so much lovely xx

  5. 7 January, 2017 / 9:29 am

    It would have been memorable to give birth at the concert. I’m glad it was nothing serious and that you can carry the pregnancy to full term. Sorry your Christmas wasn’t the best, but next year it should be very special. xx

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:15 pm

      Haha, it most definitely would be a unique experience! 🙂 x

  6. 7 January, 2017 / 1:09 pm

    Oh it would’ve been so memorable to give birth at a Kylie concert! However having given birth, I wouldn’t want to do it in public! I’m so glad to hear that everything was ok but I can imagine it was very scary not feel any movement. Sounds like she’s making up for it now! x

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:14 pm

      Haha I really didn’t want to give birth at the Royal Albert Hall, even though that would be COOL! xx

  7. Rachel Bee
    7 January, 2017 / 3:15 pm

    Very glad little one is doing OK! And thank you for the mention xx

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:13 pm

      You are welcome, thank you for the super handy list! xx

  8. 8 January, 2017 / 1:28 am

    I’m glad to see she’s a kyle fan! It seems that bump is really on the move, I can’t wait to see how big you are when I next see you! I’ll bring biscuits 🙂 Glad it’s all going well x

    Honestly Aine

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:13 pm

      Haha, quite a lot bigger than when I last saw you, she’s growing FAST! xx

  9. 8 January, 2017 / 9:16 pm

    So pleased she’s doing well! Timing your Braxton Hicks on Kylie songs really is a whole new level, hahaha! x

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:13 pm

      Hahaha, I know! Maybe I will put Kylie on when I’m in proper labour, might speed things along 😉 xx

  10. newmummykate
    8 January, 2017 / 11:05 pm

    SO glad little one is doing well. Good look with the next few weeks x

    • 10 January, 2017 / 5:12 pm

      Thank you so much x x

  11. Jess
    17 January, 2017 / 12:49 am

    Hang on in there! You’ll get to meet little one soon! Timing contractions at a Kylie concert is probably the greatest story! xD

  12. 20 January, 2017 / 6:29 pm

    This was so nice to read – I am currently 32 weeks pregnant, and have definitely had my share of scares (reduced movements) but as you said, the hospital staff are great at calming you down. I hope everything is going well for you! x

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